Guys, and their logic, make near to no sense to me. Which is weird, considering most of my friends and certainly my best friends are all guys. But some things I'll just never agree with them on.
Top Things I Will Never Understand or Agree With About [most] Guys:
-Their need to 'explore' and need for a 'chase'.
-Their general avoidance of heavy emotional or time commitments due to a drive for independence.
-Their obsession with boobs. Like maybe it's just cuz I already have them, but it just doesn't seem like they're as much fun as guys think xD.
-Some of their humor, and what they find a funny joke that is absolutely not a funny joke.
-How quickly they can change their mind (it's actually not just girls!).
-Their complete oblivion to what girls think are very obvious hints (e.g. when you like a guy and they have no clue whatsoever)
-Or, their complete overanalyzation of every move a girl-of-interest makes. No, there actually is no code to the meaning of "byeee!" versus "byeeee!", sorry!
-How they consider girls the 'complicated' ones. Actually; 4 C's: Chocolate, Care, Constant loyalty, and Compliments. Not hard.
-Their frequent exclusion of girls from close 'best friend' groups as if we have cooties.
-Their all-costs avoidance to admit defeat or accept help, especially from a girl.
Amongst other things. Call me sexist but I can promise you I'm not the only girl on the internet that's ever gone, "Wait...what?? That makes no sense!" to something a guy has said or done.
But at the end of the day, when you care about a guy, even if he does something that makes no sense to you, there's a point where you have to say, "You're completely illogical...but fine, I'll respect your opinion because I love you." Because even if I'll never agree, sometimes I can at least see their point of view. And i think once you learn to do that, it's kinda like that "maturity" thing i keep hearing about. Who knows :).
Point is boys can be stupid. But you gotta love 'em anyway. :)
Ash and I have been talking more relationship-y stuff lately. A couple incongruousnesses of opinion that we worked out in the end. I find it all just really comes down to a respect thing. Even if you can't agree with the person's viewpoint, respect them enough to try to understand if nothing else. THAT'S when a relationship can really work.
Oh! And i decided to re-record "Smother Me" as soon as I get a chance. The first video is too fast, methinks. Just a heads up :).
♪: "Suddenly I See" by KT Tunstall
♫: "Summer Breeze" by Jason Mraz
♪♫: "Best Damn Thing" by Avril Lavigne
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
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